Keys to Marital Pleasure

Our store and receptions are frequented by bachelorette parties who ask for tips for the bride or groom-to-be. We also meet couples who are both new and have been together for decades, who come to us for ideas, tips and inspiration for their relationship. Your sex life definitely doesn't have to fade away after the priest's amen!

The foundation of a great sex life is the foundation of the basic pillars of a relationship, which are perhaps even more difficult to master than the teachings of the Kama Sutra. These are definitely worth investing in from the very beginning of the relationship, but regardless of the duration of the relationship!

Conversation is the foundation of everything, even in sex.

It's not for nothing that it is said that conversation is the most important sex skill. It is also definitely one of the most important relationship skills in general.

When things aren't discussed, it's easy to make assumptions without even realizing it. We may think that our partner must like something because "others" like it or have liked it too. We may also forget that our partner may not think the same way we do.

The game is not lost, even if talking to your partner doesn't come naturally or easily. Sometimes, it can actually be harder to share your feelings with the person you're closest to than with a casual acquaintance! The significance of a relationship can bring with it the excitement of whether the other party accepts your wishes, needs, or desires and whether you can find a way to fulfill them together in a way that suits both of you. It's possible to practice talking, even if it doesn't come naturally. If necessary, professional help is also available.

It's worth updating conversations

Conversations should not be forgotten even in a long-term relationship, because each of us is constantly changing. It is too easy to assume that a spouse who has been together for twenty years would be the same person and think about things the same way they did when they got married in their twenties. Of course, this may be the case in principle, but growth and development are natural. Change can also be an opportunity, because over time, both the relationship and sex life can take on completely new shades! 

Encountering is about taking the other into account

Over the years and decades, it sometimes happens that even if you live under the same roof with your partner, genuine encounters become less frequent. Everyday things take up all your attention and there may not be time for being together and having in-depth conversations, or it may not be taken.

In the busiest times, the experience of encounter can be gained from even the smallest moments and things. Asking and sharing your thoughts at the end of the day, being considerate in everyday situations, and small moments of intimacy can go a long way. Encountering helps maintain the emotional connection, which is also the cornerstone of shared sex.

Intimacy is the glue of a relationship

Intimacy is much more than just sex. In a busy world, even small moments and actions can mean a lot. Gentle caresses, kisses when you meet, a shoulder massage after a hard day at work, a hug while watching TV, or any other moment together that suits you is worth taking advantage of.

Closeness can help maintain a connection even when things are difficult with your partner and you can't find the words, or when sex doesn't work out for one reason or another or there isn't enough time for it. Of course, it's important to respect your own and your partner's boundaries here too. Touch doesn't always feel good, and in that case, it's not worth forcing it.

Pleasure deserves its time

Shared pleasure is something worth investing in. It doesn't always have to be about all-day sex sessions, but anything in life fades away if you don't make time for it. Find a way to spend pleasurable moments that suits you! Some people like to schedule sex dates in their calendars, others like to spend the occasional night in a hotel, and some people find it best to set aside time together in the morning before work or in the evening before bed. All options are equally good and right as long as they fit into your life together.

Sex should be a fun thing to do together, not a stressful and pressure-inducing chore. Sex can also mean many different things, and it doesn't always or ever have to involve intercourse, for example. Pleasure is pleasure, regardless of the means by which it is received and given.

By experimenting towards new possibilities

Curiosity and a desire to experiment are great qualities that are also useful in sex in a long-term relationship. People change all the time, and sex doesn't have to stay the same either. The only limit to coming up with new stimuli and ideas is your imagination!

Of course, you don't have to change what has been proven to be good, but by experimenting, you can find completely new dimensions alongside the old and reliable options. Give yourself the opportunity to seek and find different pleasures together! Talk about your wishes, fantasies, get to know sex toys, or even make that wish you once carefully said out loud in a side sentence come true.

Of course, not all experiments need to become permanent parts of your sex life, but they can help you find previously unexplored opportunities for wonderful shared pleasure. However, it is important to respect your own and each other's boundaries. You shouldn't do anything unless you truly want to, and you are always allowed to say no.

Cheer up with adult toys and games

You can add a wonderful variety and excitement to your sex life with the help of sex toys, equipment and costumes, whether you want romantic and gentle vanilla sex, rough BDSM games or anything in between.

You also don't get stuck in different categories, as romantic and tender sex can also gain new dimensions through erotic bondage, for example. Try something that is especially suitable for beginners. binding set , which contains a diverse selection of basic products for even gentle binding!

For example, wonderful treats serve as a delicious addition to closeness and touch. Shunga massage creams , which come in eleven different scents and flavors. A partner's massage can take on new dimensions when you blow on the massaged area and the cream warms the skin even more. The massage cream can also be kissed and licked all over the body and can be safely left on intimate areas as a lubricant if you want a truly holistic massage experience. 

When autumn comes, it's wonderful to get together by candlelight. Then the choice can also be A massage candle , the melted mass of which can be used as massage oil. These high-quality Shunga products are also available in many different scent options.

We also have role-playing costumes, vibrators and all sorts of other fun things for shared use! Come alone or with your partner to explore our selection and get some cheer for the upcoming autumn! We'll be happy to help <3

Explore, search, enjoy and make time for erotica! 

Best regards,

Girls of the Erotic Era