Just the usual flapping of blankets

Sometimes we have customers who tell us that they don't really need anything special from us, that they just want “regular sex.” What is that and how do these customers even come to us regularly?

Many kinds of ordinaryness

“Regular sex” means different things to everyone, and there is no one “right” way to have sex. For some, regular sex is a quickie in the dark under the covers, for others it’s just as normal to dig out your BDSM gear, indulge in a long-winded routine, and skip the whole act.

However, most often, those who talk about “regular” or “traditional” sex mean penis-vagina intercourse. In the midst of heteronormative intercourse, it is sometimes forgotten that there are also many other ways to enjoy, regardless of gender, genitals, and relationship status. These are not mutually exclusive, but “regular intercourse” can also include a little spice if the parties so wish.

Ordinary to glory

The world is full of different sex toys and other stimuli, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with "normal" intercourse as it is! What's important is that the way you have sex suits both parties and that everything that happens during sex is mutually consensual.

At its best, the "traditional" encounter of bodies can be extremely pleasurable, and then there really isn't necessarily a need for anything between the bodies and the shared pleasure.

Just ordinary tools

Even when intercourse is the preferred method of sex for both parties, sometimes a little support for pleasure can be needed.

Slipping in order

The most common lubricant we buy is lube, because even in the most pleasurable moments, regardless of age or level of arousal, you may need extra slipperiness. I wish everyone had lube in their closet, just to be safe. There's nothing more annoying than not having a smooth ride!

There are lubricants for a wide range of needs and desires. Water-based lubricants have a fairly natural texture and can be washed off with water. Water-based products also include flavored lubricants and lubricants with stimulating properties, if you are interested in trying something a little different.

Silicone-based lubricants are especially excellent if the vaginal mucosa is dry, thin, or otherwise sensitive. The lubricant forms a protective film on the mucosa and is more slip-resistant than water-based lubricants.

Erection support

A penis pump can help to achieve and strengthen an erection if, for some reason, the erection is not strong enough despite arousal. The pump is used as needed, for example before intercourse, and its effect is temporary.

In addition to and in conjunction with a penis pump, penis rings are an excellent mechanical aid for strengthening and maintaining an erection. The penis ring can be slipped into place after using the penis pump, in which case the penis ring helps to maintain the effect achieved with the penis pump. In addition to the penis ring, you can also use a testicle ring, which can affect the strength of the erection.

Penis rings and testicle rings can be used to support erections without the use of a penis pump, either alone or together. Using both rings at the same time enhances the effect of both rings.

More intense pleasure

There are also creams to strengthen erections that stimulate local blood circulation in the penis. They can also increase sensitivity, making touch more pleasurable.

There are also various orgasm creams and oils for the clitoris, which are intended to bring different sensations, increase sensitivity to touch, and even arouse physical desire. These products can bring more pleasure or just variety to sexual moments.

A little cheer

Even when “normal” sex is satisfying and enjoyable in every way, you may sometimes be interested in exploring other possibilities for pleasure. There are alternatives if you both decide you’re ready to try something new! Sometimes, literally, even the smallest things can add a lot of excitement to your sex life.

For example, vibration is a sensation that is very different from anything the body can produce. Vibrating products are not always large or rod-shaped, but the smallest products are less than the length of a finger.

These bullet vibrators are intended for external use and their uses are almost limitless. Bullet vibrators are often purchased as clitoral stimulators, but what would the vibration feel like on, say, the nipples, thighs, or testicles?

Vibrating cock rings are also a more versatile product than their name suggests. They can be used as a traditional cock ring, but the vibration can often also be directed to the testicles or the cock ring can be held in the hand as a small vibrator.

Enjoyment above all else

Different sex toys can be a part of just regular intercourse. Bringing sex toys into sex together is an opportunity to explore and discover different pleasures, not a threat to other pleasures or a sign that there is something wrong with sex as such.

Often, trying out different sex toys is a reminder that sex is not about performance, but about a wonderful journey of exploration and pleasure. The human body is amazing and there are so many different ways to give and receive pleasure.

The meeting of bodies is extremely important and enjoyable, even if you are interested in occasionally adding vibration to your sex. However, sex can be just as enjoyable without it, throughout your life.

We are happy to help you choose a product, whether you want extra glide, vibration in the gaps, or something else entirely.

We warmly welcome you to our store to explore the options <3