Butt basics

Many people are interested in the pleasure of the butt, but aren't quite sure where to start. Butt sex doesn't have to be for everyone, but only by trying it out can you find out what kind of opportunities the butt can offer you and your potential partner(s). So, feel free to start exploring alone or with your partner(s), if you're interested at all. Butts can bring new dimensions to your sex life in many ways!

Butt-related pleasure is everyone's right

There are still an awful lot of useless assumptions and misconceptions about butt sex. Sometimes people wonder, for example, whether a man is gay if he enjoys butt sex, or whether it's strange that a woman, as the receiving party, enjoys anal sex even more than vaginal sex.

Butt sex can be very enjoyable regardless of gender or sexual orientation. Physiologically, each of us has pleasure-producing areas in the butt area. The innervation of the anal area is actually very similar to the innervation of the genitals! In addition, the G-spot, or prostate, of biological men is about 2.5-5 cm deep from the anus. In biological women, the vaginal wall and rectum are next to each other, so the G-spot can also be reached through the butt.

Enjoyment alone and together

Butt can bring pleasure to both the recipient and the giver, whether it's through intercourse, licking, or using various sex toys. The parties can also alternate roles or use a butt plug at the same time during sex. Gender or genitalia don't matter here, as anyone can enjoy being both the giver and the recipient.

Butt sex, on the other hand, doesn't necessarily require a partner at all, and can also be part of solo sex. For example, various anal plugs and beads, vibrating toys and dildos are great for solo use. Stroking the anus or even putting a finger in the butt can also add a nice touch to solo sex.

Butt enjoys touch

Often when we talk about butt sex, we think of penetrative sex, where a penis, dildo, or other sex toy is inserted into the butt. This is also often pleasurable, but it doesn't have to be a desire or goal. The butt can provide pleasure in many different ways.

The butt as a whole is a strong erogenous zone for many people. Stroking, slapping or squeezing the buttocks can in itself provide a lot of pleasure. Sometimes these are enough to spice up sex, and you don't even need to touch the anus. In this case, it's worth trying different clubs, whips or ticklers, which can help you create different sensations. As sex tools, whips and clubs are not necessarily intended to cause pain, but can be used alone or in agreement with a partner(s) in many ways, from light caressing to hard blows.

Warming up is the be-all and end-all of everything.

Butt caressing, slapping, massaging, or any touch that feels good to you and your potential partner is also a wonderful warm-up for other butt play.

When having butt sex, it is extremely important to remember that you should never put anything in your butt from the cold. The right atmosphere helps you relax and also relax the butt area. This is important for the experience to be pleasant and safe. A back and butt massage or full body caress can help you get into the mood.

It's definitely worth trying smaller butt plugs or other toys before you bring out larger toys or plan on penile penetration. Vibration is often also experienced as relaxing. Stroking the anus with a vibrator, for example, can help warm up the butt for other play.

It's important to remember that butt play is not a competition, and you should never try to make your butt toys bigger and bigger unless it feels right. You shouldn't feel any pain either.

Skating to the rim!

Lubricant is an essential part of successful butt play, as the butt has no natural lubricant, unlike the vagina. So it's a good idea to use plenty of lube when inserting anything into the butt. Especially for butt use Designed ones are often silicone-based to ensure adequate and durable glide.

Among the lubricants designed for anal use, there are also products that are designed to relax or even to slightly numb the anal area. These products can help with physical relaxation, but you should still not forget about other warm-ups.

Safety first

It's worth remembering that you should never put your fingers, toys, or penis directly into your vagina from your butt. Proper washing in between is essential, as bacteria from your butt can cause nasty infections in your vagina.

Using a condom and oral sex protection is also important when having anal sex with someone who is not your regular sex partner. Sexually transmitted diseases can also be transmitted through the butt, whether it's anal sex or licking the anus.

A partner with whom you can communicate effectively and who is good in every way brings a sense of emotional security. Conversation outside of sex is extremely important when you are on the verge of something new. During sex, there should always be the possibility to stop the situation completely or take a timeout at any stage. You must respect your own and your partner's feelings, and you should never do anything if it feels unpleasant or hurts.

Butt toys for beginners

When using toys that are inserted into the butt, you should always consider the toy's suitability for use in the butt. Butt plugs have a safety base, the wide design of which ensures that the plug stays where it should be. Any vibrator can be used to caress the anal area, but you have to be careful with toys that are inserted into the butt. A trip to the hospital emergency room after the toy has slipped all the way in is not a pleasant climax to a sexual moment...

For beginners, we often recommend a graceful, soft toy as their first butt toy. a butt plug made of silicone or jelly material.
Vibrating butt plugs can also be pleasant due to the relaxing effect of the vibration. However, there is nothing stopping you from choosing otherwise! Diving straight into the deep end can be unnecessarily violent, so it is better to leave the biggest plugs and dildos for later, or even skip them altogether.

We also have a wide selection of different butt plugs, anal beads and vibrating products in our store. We are happy to help you choose the right product for you or your partner's needs and desires!

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