Soloing

In the fall, many people spend time at home, getting cozy. Dream images may include moments with your partner by the fire, but when was the last time you dreamed of enjoying yourself all by yourself?

The beauty of masturbation

Solo sex, or masturbation, is sadly often perceived as a substitute for other, “more real” sex. Masturbation is thought to occur when there is no sexual partner or when there is not enough sex with a partner.

Of course, masturbation can sometimes be the only way to enjoy sex, but that doesn't make it any less sex. Safety, no pressure, and a familiar company make it easier for many people to enjoy it.

In addition to a quick release of pressure, masturbation can also be a time of unhurriedness for yourself. What kinds of things would you like to try or experience when the only limit is your own imagination?

Feel your pleasure

Young people are often encouraged to get to know their bodies, but a little reminder doesn't hurt at any stage of life. The body changes over the years, which means that pleasure can also change and even diversify. A method of pleasure that has proven effective once can work throughout life, but completely new ways of pleasure can also be found alongside or as a replacement through experimentation.

Masturbation is an incredibly good way to get to know your own body and what kinds of things can bring you pleasure. When you're solo, you don't have to think about anyone else's pleasure or desires, but you can enjoy yourself just the way you want to at that moment.

Personal and shared enjoyment

A partner's masturbation can sometimes even cause feelings of inadequacy for the other partner in a relationship. Am I not desirable enough when my partner prefers to do things on his own? Isn't our sex together enough?

Basically, masturbation should not be a threat in a relationship, but an opportunity in every way. Sex with a partner is always different from solo sex. Even the best sex toy is no substitute for another person's touch, and your own hand is not the same as the closeness of your partner.

Sometimes there is pressure to perform when having sex with a partner, even when the partner is familiar and the relationship is safe. During solo sex, it can be easier than usual to have an orgasm or even a strong erection, because there is usually no similar pressure involved. The way to enjoy yourself found alone can easily transfer over time to shared sex with a potential partner, so everyone wins!

Solo sex is, at its best, an enjoyable part of a relationship, even a shared one, and it adds pleasure to both you and your partner.

Inspirations and images

For many people, solo sex involves watching porn or other visual stimuli. Various fantasies, images, or memories can also serve as stimuli.

You can also add other elements to solo sex that feel good to you if you want. Could your own sex include outfits that make you feel beautiful, handsome, or sexy? Could your own sex be an opportunity to explore clothing materials that appeal to you, for example?

People enjoy with all their senses. Sometimes, in addition to the sense of sight, it can be interesting to try seeking pleasure from scents or different ways of touching. These experiences are not only reserved for sex with a partner, but can also take solo sex to new dimensions!

Should there be sex toys?

Sometimes, for solo sex, you need sex toys to enhance your pleasure or for a change, and they are available!

For some reason, there is still a persistent belief that one's own hand should be enough for a penis, while everyone with a vulva needs a dildo. Of course, that's not the case, there are as many ways to enjoy as there are people.

There's nothing wrong with using your own hands, quite the opposite! Hand caressing can be a part of your own pleasure, even when you sometimes want to use sex toys or different stimuli.

Most sex toys are suitable for solo sex. However, the most commonly used ones are various clitoral stimulators, dildos and vibrating wands, as well as masturbators and artificial vaginas.

Much-needed clitoral stimulators

The most well-known clitoral stimulators today are probably the Satisfyer vacuum-operated products. Their feel is unique, and you can't really get the same feeling with your own hands or even with another person. Try suction to caress your nipples, for example!

The latest Satisfyer models also come with a closed mouthpiece that can be replaced with a traditional mouthpiece. With the closed mouthpiece, the product turns into vibrating pleasure.

Electric wands and the many possibilities of dildos

Dildos and wand vibrators are often thought of as only for vaginal use, but many of them can also be used for anal use if desired. The vibration of vibrator wands is often a pleasurable sensation that cannot be achieved with the body.

Especially with dildos, a suction cup base can be useful for solo sex , no matter what the purpose. You can attach the product to the bedroom floor or bathroom wall with the suction cup, for example, and free up your hands for other uses. Handy when you only have your own hands to use ;)

Luscious masturbators and artificial vaginas

Masturbators and artificial vaginas are the most common products for penis caressing.

The masturbator's motor allows you to enjoy caressing at the touch of a button. What could be easier and more comfortable? The products' different vibrations, movements and other features provide a wide range of possibilities for pleasure.

Of course, a fake vagina doesn't have to be a vagina, but can refer to any product that mimics an orifice or has a neutral design. These penetration-focused products often appeal to many precisely because of their look and feel that mimics a real orifice .

Pleasure is pleasure

Pleasure in general is good for both the body and the mind, whether alone or with a possible trusted sexual partner or partners. Sex life can be enjoyable and satisfying even when there is no partner to share it with.

If you've already found a way to enjoy something so wonderful that suits you, by all means, stick to it! However, the pleasure is very comprehensive and almost limitless, and it's never too late to explore your own pleasure. Solo sex is an easy way to start!

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